A..sex..ual? Asexual!
They could love you but not be sexually attracted to you but that is them or maybe it's you and some would never love you but give you sex though not out of sexual attraction, isn't it a tragedy that you have met the former than the later now you are identifying yourself as 'a..sex...ual'/ asexual due to the former; however I am not in support of the latter because it is the fear of the consequences of sex that have made you ' a..sex...ual' ! Asexual? Now you identify your sexuality by your situation. You are single, alone and neither loved nor infatuated the same way you cannot love nor infatuate but struggle to lust, so what sexuality can you identify yourself with than by; 'a..sex...ual' ? Asexual! You are mesmerizingly enticed by the melting attraction of the opposite sex but are not attracted to it or cannot. In the same way, anyone can see something they lust for but cannot love to have, but who would lust after you if you cannot love yourself?